Approvals

Approvals, explained

Tidywell can hold a completed task for a parent or partner to review before it counts. Here's how it works for kids, for adult members, and what gets preserved when something gets sent back.

The basics

A soft pause between done and counted

When a profile has approval turned on, finishing a task doesn't immediately mark it complete. The completion goes into a pending state and an envelope shows up in the admin's inbox. The admin opens it, sees what got done (with optional photos), and either approves or sends it back. Approval is the moment the task actually counts.

Coins and streaks wait until approval lands

No half-credits. A pending task pays no coins yet, and it doesn't bump the streak. When the admin approves, both arrive at once. If the task gets sent back, neither happens, the task just reappears on the list.

Two flavours

Opt-in for kids, opt-in for adults too

Approval is opt-in per profile, not a household-wide setting. There are two situations it tends to fit, and they're priced differently.

Kid Mode approvals

FreeOff by default, easy to turn on

When you add a Child profile, approval starts off and you turn it on whenever you're ready. From the child's member detail screen, flip Needs approval and any task they finish will land in your inbox before counting.

  • Coins arrive when you approve, not when the kid taps Complete
  • Streak only counts approved completions
  • You can switch it off again at any time per child

Adult member approvals

PremiumOff by default for Members

An adult Member can opt into approval too. Useful for co-parenting, shared accountability, or anyone who just wants a second pair of eyes on certain tasks. Premium-only because it's a power-user setup, not the standard adult flow.

  • Toggle it on per adult profile, not for the whole household
  • The reviewer is still an Admin, even if the requester is also an adult
  • Same envelope, same Approve and Reject buttons

Only Admins can approve or reject

Members and Children can't sign off on each other's tasks, even if approval is on for someone else in the household. If your household has one Admin, they're the bottleneck. Promote a second Admin in Profile → Members if you want shared review duties.

The flow

From tap to tick, with a pause

Three stops between Complete and counted. Here's what each one looks like.

1

Tap Complete

The requester finishes the task as normal. Optional before and after photos can be attached.

2

Pending envelope

The task is held in a pending state. The requester sees a friendly envelope on their Today tab, the admin sees it in their inbox.

3

Admin reviews

The admin opens the envelope, checks the task name, room, effort, and photos if there are any. Two buttons: Approve or Reject.

Approved

Task moves to done. Coins are paid, streak ticks up, room health updates.

Rejected

Task reappears on the list. No coins, no streak bump. If the task was pinned to a specific day, the pin stays.

The envelope is character, not just chrome

The pending card uses a handwritten 'Caveat' font for the kid-friendly bit. It doesn't look like a system error or a warning, it looks like a note waiting to be opened. Small detail, big difference for younger users who might otherwise read 'pending' as 'wrong'.

Inbox

What admins see

Open Profile, then Approvals. The screen groups pending items into Children and Members so you can blitz the kid stack first if you like, or handle adult items separately.

Children section

Every pending task from a kid in the household, newest first. Tap the envelope to see the task, room, effort, and any photos. Approve and Reject sit at the bottom, so the same gesture works for every item.

Members section

Same layout for any adult Members who have approval turned on. Hidden if no adult in the household is using it, so it doesn't clutter the screen for typical setups.

Optional before and after photos

Photos are never required, but they make a quick approval painless. Especially useful for tasks where 'looks done' is the only real test, like a bathroom or a tidied bedroom. Photos respect the household's retention policy: 7 days on free, 35 days on Premium.

Only your household sees this

Pending envelopes never leave the household. Members see only their own pending items plus, if they're Admin, the inbox of others. Nobody outside the house sees a thing.

What rejection preserves

Sending a task back doesn't lose its place

This is the bit that surprises people. If a kid pinned a task to Saturday and you reject it on Saturday evening, Tidywell doesn't dump the task back into a faceless backlog. The original Saturday pin survives the rejection, so the task simply reappears on its scheduled day, ready to retry.

Pending, pinned to Saturday

Tidy your bedroom

Saturday
Pending

Kid completes the task on Saturday afternoon. Envelope sits in the admin inbox with the Saturday pin still attached.

Rejected, pin still there

Tidy your bedroom

Saturday
Back on the list

Admin rejects it. Task comes back to the list with the same Saturday pin, not buried in the backlog with no schedule.

Without this, every rejection would feel like a punishment with extra steps, you'd lose the schedule and have to set it up again. Preserving the deferral keeps the friction at 'try again', not 'start over'.

Why this matters for kids especially

A rejected-but-rescheduled task is recoverable. A rejected-and-dumped task is just gone, and the kid often forgets it ever existed. Keeping the pin means the chore is back on Saturday, on its own, in the spot they already expected it. They retry, you approve, everyone moves on.

Coins, streaks, undo

What approval pays out, and what you can take back

Approval is the trigger for everything that rewards completion. Here's the breakdown of what arrives when, and what's reversible.

Coins arrive on approval

When you approve, the kid's coin balance goes up by the task's coin value. Reject and no coins are paid. There's no partial payout, and the kid sees the coin animation only once the envelope is approved.

Streaks bump on approval

A pending task doesn't count toward the daily streak. If a kid completes everything but it's all sat in your inbox at midnight, the streak is at risk. Approve before the day ends and the streak ticks up as if the task counted from the moment it was done.

Approving has a quick undo

Right after you approve, a small toast offers Undo for a short window. Tap it and the task goes back to pending. Useful if you tapped the wrong button or realised the photo doesn't show what you thought.

Rejecting has no quick-undo button

If you reject by mistake, no panic, the task just comes back to the list with its pin intact. The kid taps Complete again and you get a fresh envelope. Slower than the approval-undo toast, but it works.

FAQ

Common questions

Can a Child approve their own tasks?
No. Approval is Admin-only. A Child profile can complete tasks and see their own pending envelope, but they can't sign off on it themselves. That's the whole point of having approval on for that profile.
Can a Member approve another Member's task?
Also no. Even if Member A and Member B both have approval on, neither of them can review the other's envelope. Only an Admin can. Promote a trusted adult to Admin if you want more than one reviewer in the household.
What if there's no Admin online for ages?
The envelope just sits there. We haven't put a TTL on pending approvals, so a busy week won't wipe anything. The streak is the only thing on a clock, and only if you let the day roll over without approving. Nothing breaks if a pending task waits two days for a busy parent.
Does the kid see why I rejected it?
Currently no, there's no per-rejection reason field in the app. The kid just sees the task come back. The intended pattern is a quick chat: 'I sent the bathroom one back, the sink wasn't done.' We may add a small note field later, but a real conversation usually beats a typed-in reason anyway.
What happens to the photos on a rejected task?
They stay attached to that task and respect the household's photo retention. On free that's 7 days, on Premium it's 35. After retention, they roll off automatically. If the kid retries the task later, they'd capture fresh before and after photos for the new attempt.
If I'm an adult Member with approval on, who approves mine?
Any Admin in the household. Doesn't matter who set up the household originally, doesn't matter which Admin happens to be online first. The pending envelope shows up in every Admin's inbox and the first one to tap Approve or Reject wins.